Salvation Army’s Men’s Breakfast: A Recipe for Community and Wellbeing

In a world where the pressures of life can often feel overwhelming, The Salvation Army in Reading Lower Earley is offering men a unique sanctuary: a monthly men’s breakfast at its community café located at Chalfont Close. This gathering, held in a warm and welcoming environment, is more than just a chance to enjoy a cup of coffee—it’s a lifeline for men seeking connection, support, and a space to simply be themselves.  

Meeting every second Saturday of the month between 10am and 12 noon, the men’s breakfast led by two church members Keith Vertigan, Darren Early with the support of church leader Roelof Vermeulen, has become a cornerstone of the community, attracting men from all walks of life. What started as a small initiative to support men’s mental wellness has grown into a popular monthly event, with 18 regular attendees—only four of whom are members of the church. 

Even the Mayor of Earley Town, Councillor Mike Smith is a familiar face at the gatherings, attending not in an official capacity, but as a fellow man seeking connection and camaraderie.  

Roelof Vermeulen said: "Our monthly men's breakfast isn't just coffee and a chat; it's a lifeline. It's a place where men can find a listening ear, share the burdens of life, and find healing from the pressures that weigh them down. We believe that healthy, stress-free men build stronger homes, stronger communities, and a better society for everyone." 

“It’s wonderful to see so many different men coming together. The mayor’s presence shows that we’re all individuals outside of our roles, and we all need these connections. It’s a place where we can just be true to ourselves, without the distractions of the outside world.”

Each breakfast offers something different from cooking together, indoor bowls, board games, quizzes, to hosting guest speakers, including bestselling authors, members of the staff of the royal household, beekeepers, and hobbyists among others. The focus, however, remains on open conversation and mutual support, breaking down the stigma surrounding men’s mental health.

Mayor of Earley Town, Councillor Mike Smith praised the initiative saying the community needs more of such programmes that remind humanity the power of social networks and community support systems.

The mayor said: “I am delighted to have been invited to these events. This is a great initiative to create opportunities for companionship and conversations. I have attended three of these events so far and they are most enjoyable, meeting people across a wide spectrum of Earley residents and enjoying the various speakers."

The Salvation Army in Reading Lower Earley is a community hub driven by compassion to offer practical support and a welcoming space for all, providing vital services and foster connections to strengthen individuals and families. For more information about The Salvation Army in Reading Lower Earley visit Reading Lower Earley | The Salvation Army.