Grandmother returns to toddler group after 30 years

A grandmother from Bellshill who first attended her local parent and toddler group run by The Salvation Army with her own children more than 30 years ago is now back with her grandson. The church and charity is highlighting the vital role these groups play in helping families build friendships and combat isolation wrapping up this year’s annual National Month of Prayer for Toddler Groups. 

Christine Ferguson first walked through the doors of The Salvation Army in Bellshill, central Scotland, with her sons Jordan, now 35, and Nathan, now aged 31. Years later she returned with grandson Harry and more recently attends with one-year-old grandson Freddie. 

She still remembers the difference the group made when she became a first-time mum. Christine said:  

"It gave me somewhere to go every week and I ended up making many of the friendships that I still have today. It's lovely to be back all these years later with my grandson and see that sense of community is still here. It's a welcoming place where families can meet, children can play and everyone can support one another. The friendships and memories you make here really do last."

Every June, The Salvation Army celebrates the communities formed through its parent and toddler sessions, which are among its most popular activities. Across the country these groups provide a welcoming space for parents, grandparents and carers to connect while young children play. Families looking for connection and community are encouraged to contact their local group and register interest now for next term to be sure of securing a place.  

For many families around Scotland, the groups provide more than just a place for children to play. They offer an opportunity for adults to meet others going through similar experiences and create support networks within their local community. 

Olwyn Mathie, Community Programme Coordinator at The Salvation Army in Bellshill, said:  

"We regularly meet parents who are new to the area, first-time mums and dads, or grandparents caring for young children who are simply looking for someone to talk to. Raising children can sometimes feel isolating but when people come through our doors they quickly discover they're among others who understand what they're going through. 

"Everyone is welcome here, regardless of their background or beliefs. It's about providing a safe, affordable and friendly place where families can spend time together, have fun and know they belong." 

Chelsea Fairley, from Mossend, attends the group with her two-year-old son Harry and says it has become the highlight of his week. 

She said: "I heard about the group because my sister used to bring her two boys here. After Covid, I hadn't really been to any activities with the children, so I first came along when my older boy Louie was one. 

"Harry absolutely loves it − it's his favourite time of the week. The staff are brilliant and make everyone feel so welcome. It's not just good for the children. It's good for me too because I get to socialise with other parents and grandparents and have a chat with people who understand family life." 

Second only to Sunday worship in terms of attendance, parent and toddler groups offer affordable sessions where children can play, develop social skills and make friends while parents, grandparents and carers enjoy conversation, encouragement and peer support. 

To find your nearest group visit www.salvationarmy.org.uk and enter a postcode.